Using Butt Plugs for a Dominant Experience

Butt plugs are very popular for a reason

Let’s say that you wanted to have a dominant/submissive experience with your partner, and you were thinking about using anal sex toys. The good news is that you can use these toys as a woman or a guy, and the experience is going to be great. It doesn’t really matter if you want to be dominated, or if you want to dominate him. For either of you, having one of these plugs inside of you will increase the pleasure you experience before and during your orgasm. But before you get into giving them a try, let me explain the best way for you to use them. This information will save you a lot of frustration.

First, you want to make sure you get anal toys that are appropriate to your experience level. If this is going to be the first time you are putting something up your ass (or his) then get a smaller plug. This will make it easier for the toy to get inside, and since you aren’t used to it yet, a small toy can feel rather large. After a little while of using this toy, you will really start to enjoy it, and then you might want to move on to using something bigger. When it gets to bigger toys, there is something really important that you always need to remember.

Don’t forget the lube when you are using larger butt plugs! I have been in a lot of situations where there wasn’t any lube. You shouldn’t use spit, because it could lead to an infection, and using a larger plug without any lube at all is pretty much impossible. Of course, you have to work your way up to using a larger toy like I am describing, so you will probably already have lube when you buy one. Just make sure you have a lot of it. The more you have, the easier things will go.

Make sure that you apply lube directly to the toy as well as around the outside of the ass hole. You don’t want to put any lube inside until the toy is already inserted. Instead, squirt a little bit on the toy and rub it in (sort of like you would rub a guy during a hand job) and then, using your finger tips, apply some to the sphincter muscle. From there, you can start to slowly put the toy inside. This is where the domination comes in. Tell your partner that he can not make a single sound while you are sliding the toy in, and that he has to hold it in the entire time he is getting worked. You can make him fuck you, or you can give him oral. But the rule is that he has to keep his ass clenched tight around the toy the whole time.

When a guy has this toy in his butt, it will probably stimulate his prostate. That means that when it is time for him to cum, it will be really intense, and there will be a lot of liquid. If you want to have a lot of fun, tell him that he can’t cum until you give him permission. Then, use some lube and lightly work his cock. It will take a much longer time for him to cum, and it will be easier for him to hold his orgasm back. When he does finally cum, it is going to be a big, gooey geyser, and the two of you will never forget that moment.

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