Strap On Dildos and Harnesses

For people who wish to employ strap on rubber cocks in their sex lives, for the variety of reasons people might have for such play, there are a few things necessary. Obviously, dildos are a must, and the other thing that is absolutely necessary is a strap on harness to hold the artificial penis in the proper position for the intended sexual activities.

Strap On Dildos: Some Explanations of Harnesses

There are actually several different types of harnesses for strap on dildos, and people not familiar with such play may now be aware of the options that are available. The first I would like to mention are masturbation harnesses. These types of harnesses are not intended to be worn by a person, but rather are designed to hold a fake penis in a stable position for a person to ride it, usually for solo play. These harnesses might attach a toy to a piece of furniture, a wall, or anywhere else the person wishes to place their toy.

Other harnesses for strap on realistic cocks are meant to be worn by one person who then uses the dildo to fuck a partner, and this combination of people can cross the spectrum of female/female, male/ female, or male/make couples. The most basic of harnesses are the two strap and three strap harnesses that hold the rubber cocks. A two strap harness resembles a G String, but with a place in the front to mount a dildo; these harnesses are pretty stable and allow reasonable control for the wearer, but many users complain about that narrow strap wedgied in their tush and maybe coochie as well. Considering the materials sometimes used to make harnesses, and the back and forth friction involved in fucking a partner with the fake penis, that wedgie could lead to friction burns in some, uh, rather sensitive places.

The three strap harness for strap on dildos offers a waist band and two separately adjustable loops which go around the wearer’s thighs, which leaves the genitals and ass uncovered, and that opens up all sorts of sexy possibilities. Some users of this type of harness report that it holds the artificial penis more firmly in place and allow even greater control to the wearer. Others state that it can be difficult for those not very experienced with the use of strap on realistic cocks to adjust the harness properly, and that can lead to slippage, which in turn could lead to some embarrassing and/or uncomfortable unintended insertions. This could be useful though, so remember that should you find yourself in a place you were not invited to go while using a strap on fake penis, just blame badly adjusted straps.

Other harnesses that are very popular are more like a pair of women’s panties in design, although they are by necessity made of much sturdier materials than the lace and silk you would expect to find in lingerie. These harnesses offer more material over more surface area, which can lead to greater stability and control over the dildo for the person wearing it. Additionally, the larger crotch area allows for holes through which other toys can be inserted into the pussy and/or ass of the wearer if female, or just the ass of a male wearer. These types are often equipped with vibrators or other devices intended to stimulate the clitoris of female users, allowing some women to achieve orgasm as a result of fucking her partner.
For those who use strap on rubber cocks, harnesses are important. Do some research and experimentation to find out which is right for you.