Learning to Love Butt Plugs
If you haven’t heard of butt plugs, you are probably living under a rock. These toys are very popular in porno films, but they are also featured in just about every sex catalog out there. They are also quite popular on the online sex shops. The first time I ever tried one of these toys was with one of my ex-boyfriends. He was always pretty kinky and pushing the envelope in terms of making me try new things.
The first time he brought out one of the plugs I was surprised. It started out with a very narrow tip, but it was really wide at the center. When I asked him what it was for he explained it to me. I told him that I would give it a try. Unfortunately, he didn’t really know what he was doing and tried to use it like a dildo. It felt okay, but it certainly wasn’t as good as it could have been. If he knew how to properly use anal sex toys I would have probably had a much better evening.
Fast forward to a few years later as I am about to get married for the second experience I had with anal toys. My husband asked me if I would look for a sex toy that we could both really enjoy. He wasn’t as kinky as my ex boyfriend, but he did like to do weird things. I remembered my previous experience with a butt plug and figured I would see if I could find one for us. When I started looking online I found a bunch of sites that had them, but there was one site that actually had some tips on how to use them for the best effect. The article shared some really good tips, and when my husband and I tried out plug out we were actually able to have a lot of fun.
The site I found is actually the one you are on right now. I wrote this article and sent it in as a way to say “thank you” for the good tips that they provided. So here is what I learned about using these toys to get a lot of pleasure.
First of all, they are designed to plug your butt. You should not use them like a normal dildo. Instead, you want to use a lot of lube and slowly slide it into your partners butt. You can use these toys for guys or girls, by the way, and the increased pleasure will be the same. Once the toy is in there, your partner should begin to pleasure you in the normal way. As you approach your orgasm you will notice that your entire lower region, including your ass, starts to contract. This is the pleasure of the butt plug. Having it inside of you makes the contractions much more noticeable and pleasurable.
The bigger the plug, the better, but you really have to take it slowly. The biggest toy that I ever put inside of myself has a 9” diameter, which is really pretty brutal. But over time your butt will get used to taking these larger toys and it won’t be as hard as you thought. There are a number of different toys that are designed for anal play that aren’t plugs, and the one I would recommend is the Ladygasm G-Spot buzz. It is designed for guys and girls. I would recommend that you explore using butt plugs in your relationship if you haven’t thought of it before, because if you don’t, you are really missing out on some great orgasms.