How to Choose the Best Vibrator

There are a lot of sex toys out there, especially for women: there are vibrators for every day of the week, for months at a time, it seems. Browse the shelves of your local sex shop or the web and you’ll see. They come in all shapes, sizes, textures, colors, and are so much more than your mom’s old “back massager”. It’s easy to see that there is no one best vibrator. It’s more like there is the best vibrating toy for whatever your particular urge is for at any given moment.

How to Choose the Best Vibrator

Vibrators do something your hand or a dildo can’t: they vibrate. Sounds simplistic, but it’s an amazing little innovation. You know that vibrations feel good. Almost every woman has enjoyed leaning against the washing machine on spin cycle, or took a bit too much time in the Jacuzzi, letting the water jets ease away the tension down below. Vibrations make your orgasm happen faster, harder, and last longer, if you use them properly and invest in the greatest vibrator.

Most women come by direct clitoral stimulation, and vibrators specialize in this. The top vibrator for a nice, direct, straight-to-the-point clitoral orgasm is with a small, focused device, such as a bullet vibrator, a magic egg, or a butterfly. These wonderful little buddies, when applied to your pleasure center, can take you straight to bliss. Bullet vibes are particularly useful, because they can be slipped into other sex toys to jazz them up, such as a dildo or a mutual vibrator that is used during intercourse with a partner. Butterfly vibrators sit directly on the clit and their “wings” touch the lips of your vulva, letting the sensations spread deliciously. These can also be worn during sex, to rev up the action by titillating your partner, too. Magic eggs are smooth, rounded and fit easily in the palm of your hand. The smaller, pointed end gives amazing direct stimulation, while the more oblique end is good for building up steam deliciously.

The best vibrator for ladies who like some internal fullness with their orgasm are those that penetrate the pussy or ass, but also have a vibration function that adds some extra excitement. Think of them as dildos with a punch. There are literally hundreds of shapes and sizes of penetrative vibrators. They range from vibrators that look and feel like real penises to futuristic shapes that almost look like works of art, all sensual curves and rounded edges. Choose a vibrator that feels good in your hand and has a texture you enjoy, whether silky-smooth, flesh-textured or even covered in pleasantly bumpy knobs and ridges.

The best vibrator for use with a partner is one that can be worn between you, like the butterfly or bullet vibrators discussed earlier. Some are shaped to provide g-spot and/or clit stimulation during intercourse, and the vibrations are transmitted to your partner, too, while you’re doing the deed. Others can be used in the ass (his or yours) to add even more fullness and kink to the act.

When you’re in the market for the best sex toys, ask yourself—best for what? The possibilities are nearly limitless.