Using Sex Toys in a Relationship
If you’re only using sex toys when your partner isn’t around, then you’re missing out on one of the most erotic uses these toys are designed for.
Using sex toys with your partner can actually benefit your sex life in many ways. Since it is common for women to have difficulty reaching orgasm during vaginal intercourse, using a vibrator on her clitoris at the same time is a sure-fire way to ensure she reaches orgasm every time. And, it can help take some of the performance pressure off the man.
Not only that, but watching a woman stimulate herself with a vibrator can help educate her man on how and where she enjoys being touched. The man can also hold the toy while she guides his hands to the correct areas and with the right pressures that will get her to climax.
And as if that wasn’t enough, the use of a vibrator on its own or during intercourse is a great way to help lead her into multiple orgasms. They’re not as uncommon as many people believe, and a good vibrator is an excellent way to get her there.
Which Sex Toys to Use as a Couple
Deciding on a toy to use in the bedroom is usually best left up to the woman as she knows what will work best for her own body. However, there are a lot of toys out there to choose from, so what are the best sex toys for couples?
If you’re looking for something simple to start, a small bullet-vibe runs about the size of a finger, and is great for basic clit stimulation. However, its small size may actually make it hard to hold onto in many sex positions. There are several larger vibrators such as the Ladygasm Colibri or Bliss, that are made for the contours of a woman’s body that will reach the clitoris well in most sex positions and can rest nicely on her curves for hands-free play.
Other vibrators are specifically made with couples in mind and can be fully inserted into the woman’s vagina while the man is inserted too. This allows for incredible pleasure for both parties, as the woman feels very full while her man is feeling the benefits of the vibrations.
That being said, don’t forget about him when you’re using a vibrator. Press the vibrator against the base of his shaft and run it up and down for surprising sensations. Or try pressing it firmly against his perineum (the area between the testicles and anus) for extreme pleasure.